The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

A workshop for couples.

Created by The Gottman Institute

Why another marriage workshop?


For many marriages, there is a significant gap between the Wedding Day and the day-to-day. Leading up to ‘I do’ we rightly prepare with the theory and theology of marriage, but after many couples say ‘I do’ they struggle to know what to do. This marriage workshop is designed just for that.

While the practical skills learned at this workshop will complement a Christian view of marriage, we hope that this workshop will strengthen the foundation of any marriage - regardless of belief. Our primary goal will be to help couples by providing practical ‘what-to-dos’ regarding day-to-day marriage interactions.

The goal is simple: strengthen your relationship!

  • Workshop Details

    The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work workshop is a weekend workshop based on the distinguished research and clinical methodology of Drs. John and Julie Gottman. With over 40 years experience with more than 3,000 couples, the Gottmans are internationally-renowned for helping couples improve their relationships through building intimacy and trust. The workshop includes lectures and private couple exercises. Registration includes the book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman and two workbooks. Participants will not share their personal couple information in front of others.

  • What You Will Learn

    This 10 hour workshop provides proven tools to help couples:

    • Deepen your knowledge of one another

    • Build friendship and trust

    • Recognize and respond to bids for emotional connection

    • Be open to influence

    • Understand and work with both solvable and difficult problems

    • Get through gridlocked conflict

    • Create a special “Story of Us”

    • Maintain your relationship gains

  • Who Should Attend

    • Pre-engaged

    • Premarital

    • Everyone from newlyweds to seniors

    • Those who wish to enhance a good marriage

    • Those needing better conflict management tools and communication skills

    • *Couples with severe relationship distress, emotional or domestic violence, active addiction, or other serious mental health problems are not a good fit for this workshop and will be better served through marriage therapy.

John Alan, LMFT is a certified leader of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work workshop through The Gottman Institute

Foundations Marriage and Family Therapy partners with host churches and organizations to offer the Seven Principles Workshop. Hosting simply means providing a welcoming venue for the workshop. Foundations will do the rest!

If your church or organization would like to host a workshop, please contact Foundations Marriage and Family Therapy for more information.